‘Can’t Get Over My Ex-Wife’ says Divorced Man


May 5th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

From a reader: Jackie, I can't get over my ex-wife and wondering how I ever will. My advice: A few years ago, a friend of mine was going through a  divorce and she said to me, “It’s been two years and I’m still not over it. I WANT to be ...

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When a Woman Leaves You: Justified? or Did She Give Up Too Soon?


April 8th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

One of my most popular articles on Divorced Girl Smiling is , “Honey, I want a Divorce: when a Woman Decides to Leave.” There are currently hundreds of comments posted from men and women who have yelled at each other (in writing), battling this a...

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Divorced Guy: “I Will NEVER Get Married Again. Ever”


March 20th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

This is an email I received from a 50 something year-old divorced guy who got got divorced because his wife cheated on him. He was very surprised and hurt by the cheating and said he never suspected it. I believe he has been divorced for a couple of ...

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What Happens To Your Guns In A Divorce? Here Are Some Legal Facts


August 12th, 2020 . Russell Knight

Divorce is a time when emotions run high. Having a gun in the home during a divorce can cause apprehension for either spouse. The apprehension of the unspeakable happening or merely an accusation that spins out of control.  Because the stakes are so...

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Gratitude During The Hard Times Of Divorce


November 12th, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

Gratitude During The Hard Times Of Divorce Written by a staff writer for Divorce With Dignity   Divorcing your spouse is a major life event that can leave you feeling a range of challenging emotions; from sad, exhausted and energy-deple...

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Divorce Advice: The Blame Game


October 10th, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

Great divorce advice from Chicago based transition coach, Sheila Devi on playing the blame game, and how you can win by quitting it.    The Blame Game  by Sheila Devi What would it feel like to let go of the blame game that you're pl...

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Divorce Advice For Finding Home Sweet Home


September 18th, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

Divorce Advice For Finding Home Sweet Home  by Caleb Anderson, freelance writer   One thing that worries people in the midst of a divorce most is living arrangements. Splitting property, assets, finances, and other possessions is not a...

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Is An Amicable Divorce Even Possible? Yep.


August 8th, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

4 Tips for an Amicable Divorce by Jenn Montgomery   An amicable divorce may sound like a fairytale, but you can take steps to make yours a little friendlier and easier on everyone. In general, it's best to eliminate sources of conflict a...

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6 Bad Habits Affecting your Behavior and How to Quit Them


July 7th, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

6 Bad Habits Affecting Your Behavior And How To Quit Them  by Alex Moore   Everyone has bad habits and each one of us is aware of this fact. Nevertheless, it sometimes feels powerless to change them. However, it is possible! Just making j...

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3 Ways Sports Can Help You While Going Through A Divorce


July 1st, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

3 Ways Sports Can Help You While Going Through A Divorce  by Mike Jones No matter how long the relationship lasted, dealing with the emotional and financial fall-out of a split takes a great deal of time and energy. Everyone has their way of boun...

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