Still Talking To Your Ex? Ask Yourself Why


May 17th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

Still talking to your ex? If you have children together, you probably are and you will probably be talking to him or her until the kids are adults (and even after that.) That's a good thing! Talking to your ex about the kids is a must. No matter how ...

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Relationship Advice: High Heels During Sex?


March 5th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

I have some relationship advice for a reader who emailed me this question: I like having my wife wear high heels during sex. It’s a huge turn on for me. She doesn’t get why I like this and calls it weird. How do I get her to see it as not weir...

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My Girlfriend’s Kids are Out of Control!


March 1st, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

I need some relationship advice! My girlfriend's kids are out of control! The guilt she has over her divorce keeps her from setting clear boundaries for them. Her immature and volatile ex only promotes the misbehavior. Every time they come up it ends...

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A Divorced Man’s Advice On Dating After Divorce


February 19th, 2018 . Jackie Pilossoph

Reentry  Author wishes to remain anonymous Suddenly single lonesome nights beget thoughts of getting back out there. Whether you have been kicked to the curb for cause or the romance died of natural causes you are back in a world that may have...

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5 Signs You’re In An Unhealthy Relationship


September 9th, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

5 Signs You're In An Unhealthy Relationship  by Leticia Summers Starting a new relationship is an exciting time. The initial honeymoon period is filled with starry-eyed happiness, and it feels like you two are the only people in the world. Howeve...

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Dating Advice For Conflicted Divorced Guy


January 20th, 2017 . Jackie Pilossoph

To quote a dear friend of mine who recently told me about a divorced guy she was dating, “That man is a hot mess!” The reason I am quoting her is, these are the words that came to mind when I read the email below, sent to me by a reader—a divor...

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Divorced Dad Dating: The Challenges One Dad Said He’s Facing


October 28th, 2016 . Jackie Pilossoph

          This email came from a 42 year-old divorced dad dating who shares custody of his 10 year-old daughter. I thought it was interesting how he categorized his dating challenges according to the ages o...

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Do Beer Goggles Really Increase The Likelihood Of Sex?


October 10th, 2016 . Jackie Pilossoph

        Beer Goggles: New Research and Its Results  by Trisha Miller Long time theories regarding “beer goggles” have now been scientifically backed, but maybe not quite in the way that we originally though...

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Relationship Advice For Men: Put Your Babe Before Football


September 27th, 2016 . Jackie Pilossoph

        A guest post by one of my favorite writers, John C. Turner, (Professor JT), offering relationship advice for men, specifically during football season when fantasy football can become a priority over your ro...

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4 Tips To Regaining Self-Respect


September 8th, 2016 . Jackie Pilossoph

      Picking Up The Pieces: A Man's Guide to Regaining Self-Respect by Mark Greene A woman cheated on you and you still want to date her. You said something you felt was stupid or inappropriate on a date. You have b...

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