Suddenly single lonesome nights beget thoughts of getting back out there. Whether you have been kicked to the curb for cause or the romance died of natural causes you are back in a world that may have changed significantly since the last time you were single.

This is an email I received from a 50 something year-old divorced guy who got divorced because his wife cheated on him. He was very surprised and hurt by the…..

To quote a dear friend of mine who recently told me about a divorced guy she was dating, “That man is a hot mess!” The reason I am quoting her…..

          This email came from a 42 year-old divorced dad dating who shares custody of his 10 year-old daughter. I thought it was interesting how he…..

        Beer Goggles: New Research and Its Results  by Trisha Miller Long time theories regarding “beer goggles” have now been scientifically backed, but maybe not quite in…..

        A guest post by one of my favorite writers, John C. Turner, (Professor JT), offering relationship advice for men, specifically during football season when fantasy football…..

      Picking Up The Pieces: A Man’s Guide to Regaining Self-Respect by Mark Greene A woman cheated on you and you still want to date her. You said…..

        Dating after divorce is different for everyone. Some people start dating right when they decide to separate and/or move out, perhaps because their marriage has been…..

People often wonder about dating someone who is separated—not officially divorced. Some won’t do it. Some don’t have an issue with it. Read this email I received from a reader…..

        Here is this week’s Love Essentially, my dating and relationships column, published weekly in the Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press:  Are Happy Couples Fatter? by Jackie Pilossoph for…..