A reader’s comment below prompted this blog post. I’m not sure if he is thinking of getting back together with his ex-wife or if he is asking how to let her down gently. I don’t think he would have written to me if he knew what he...
Category Archives: thinking of separating
Read This If You Are Thinking of Separating
I loved this post in the sense that it is something to think about if you are thinking of separating. A long term relationship is ALWAYS challenging and there will without a doubt be changes in both people over time. I always ...
Marital Advice: "How Can We Spice Up Our Sex Life?"
Jackie, I need some marital advice. How can we spice up our sex life? We’ve been married for 2 years and we both seem too tired to do it. I hope you understand what a big problem you have here. Not being connected sexually can lead lots of...
Marital Advice: “How Can We Spice Up Our Sex Life?”
Jackie, I need some marital advice. How can we spice up our sex life? We’ve been married for 2 years and we both seem too tired to do it. I hope you understand what a big problem you have here....
Thinking Of Separating? Listen to What This Guy Has to Say!
If you are thinking of separating, you have to read what this guy wrote! Last year at about this time my wife of 13 years left me. She had started an emotional affair with a salesman that comes into her work twice a year. I had no idea p...
Do You Have Second Thoughts About Divorce?
When I got a question from a reader asking, Is it normal to have second thoughts about divorce? I smiled sadly, and answered to myself, “I don’t think it’s normal NOT to have second thoughts about divorce.” The question brought m...
No Sex for 8 Years Leads Man Into Thinking of Separating
Jackie, I have been married for over 15 years and I'm thinking of separating. After 8 years, my wife decided to sleep in the spare room sighting that I snore and that she is not getting enough sleep. We have not slept together sexually since. I had a...
Man Thinking of Separating Has Trust and Loyalty But Asks, ‘Is that Enough?’
Awhile back, I wrote a blog post on Divorced Girl Smiling called: “The Two Most Important Words when it comes to Mr. Right.” The two words were “trust” and “loyalty.” Here is a response I received from a man thinking of separating. Jac...
Advice for Guy Thinking of Separating: Work it Out or Get Out!
Below is a comment I received from a guy thinking of separating. Just looking for some insight. I’m 23 years married, we are both professionals, in a roommate situation for 3 plus years. I am 49 and really don’t want to be 60 or 70 wishing tha...
Man Says Lack of Sex Was Big Part of His Divorce
I wrote a blog on Divorced Girl Smiling called “Hey Guys, Want more Sex? Take the Divorced woman’s advice” and below is a response I received, written by a man who said lack of sex was a big part of his divorce. My ex wife and I di...
