Relationship Advice: High Heels During Sex?


March 5th, 2022 . Jackie Pilossoph

I have some relationship advice for a reader who emailed me this question: I like having my wife wear high heels during sex. It’s a huge turn on for me. She doesn’t get why I like this and calls it weird. How do I get her to see it as not weir...

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Do Beer Goggles Really Increase The Likelihood Of Sex?


October 10th, 2016 . Jackie Pilossoph

        Beer Goggles: New Research and Its Results  by Trisha Miller Long time theories regarding “beer goggles” have now been scientifically backed, but maybe not quite in the way that we originally though...

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Lack of Sex In Marriage Has Man Wondering "Do I Have To Earn It?"


May 21st, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

Wait till you read this comment I received from a man wondering if lack of sex in marriage is because he hasn’t “earned it.” For almost all of the 25 years we have been married, I think that subconsciously, I have spent the entire time tryin...

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Sex After Divorce: Are Multiple Physical Encounters The Norm?


March 17th, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

I received this question from a guy wondering about sex after divorce.   Everyone I know who is divorced (both men and women) goes through this six month period when their divorce is final that they go out and sleep with everything that breath...

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Relationship Advice: Let’s Talk About Dirty Talk


January 4th, 2015 . Jackie Pilossoph

In his mega-hit song, Jason Derulo requests over and over, “Talk dirty to me.” But what about you? Is there dirty talk in your relationship? Are you thinking about it? Here's some relationship advice on the subject. When a man or a woman decid...

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My Interview With an Expert on Erectile Dysfunction


October 25th, 2014 . Jackie Pilossoph

I have a weekly dating and relationship column in Sun-Times Media called "Love Essentially," where I cover lots of different dating, relationship, marital and post-marital issues. The topic of this week's column (published Thursday, October 23) was E...

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Man Says Lack of Sex Was Big Part of His Divorce


October 22nd, 2014 . Jackie Pilossoph

I wrote a blog on Divorced Girl Smiling called “Hey Guys, Want more Sex? Take the Divorced woman’s advice” and below is a response I received, written by a man who said lack of sex was a big part of his divorce.   My ex wife and I di...

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