Can this marriage be saved? Read what this guy writes, followed by my thoughts and advice, and then decide. What I find so frustrating is that my wife has not tried anything to save our marriage. Heck, I am not ...
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Newly Divorced Man: “I Can’t Shake This Feeling of Blame”
Do you have some advice for this newly divorced man? I sure do! My divorce was finalized a couple months ago, though we split of up 3 years ago. She remarried recently and I can't seem to move on. I don't kn...
Man Coping With Divorce: “I Keep My Game Face On But I’m Hurting”
From a man on coping with divorce: I wasn't a great husband, but I wasn't a horrible one. I love her with all my heart and soul but couldn't show it as much as she needed me to. Instead, I was, at time...
“My World Crumbled” Says Newly Separated Man
A comment received on the site from a newly separated man: My world crumbled a few months ago when my (now ex) wife told me she wanted a divorce. I suspected that she had (or still has) an emotional affair. ...
Newly Separated Man’s Feelings All Over The Board
I received a comment from a newly separated man with 2 kids whose wife left him. In the first paragraph of what he wrote, this newly separated guy is in shock. Second paragraph: he clearly has resentment. T...
Coping With Divorce: A Soldier’s Inspirational Story
This is one of the most beautiful and inspiring divorce stories I have ever read. Written by a soldier coping with divorce, the story will take you from his “broken” moment to the day he found strength, courage and what I ...
Guy Whose Wife Was Having An Affair Says, “Cheaters Can Never Hide It”
A comment from a reader: When a wife cheats or is having an affair, be it physical or emotional, the husband will know. I saw all the signs and was blind to them. I blocked all the signs from my mind, but what convinced me of her affair was not the e...
“My Wife Left Me And Is Loving Being Single”
Read this comment that was posted on Divorced Girl Smiling by a guy who is saying “My wife left me and is loving being single.” Funny my 40 year old ex wife is loving the fact that she is single. It seems to me that when women get to be ...
Advice for "My Wife Wants to be Separated"
I am the pursuer, the chaser, the one still in love. My wife wants to be separated and is the distance, the leaver, the one “figuring things out.” We are separated in the house, as she does not have a job. We are two months into no hugs, no intim...
The Worst Divorce Advice For Men I’ve Ever Heard
Below is some divorce advice for men that was given by a divorced guy to a guy whose wife recently filed for divorce: “Separate yourself as fast as you can. Limit your contact as much as you can. With kids it’s tough but try not to c...