Category Archives: having an affair

        Should this guy leave his cheating wife? I have recently been contemplating separating/divorcing with my wife. I have a fairly high sex drive and my wife has none. I’m no saint, but in general I think ...

A comment from a reader: When a wife cheats or is having an affair, be it physical or emotional, the husband will know. I saw all the signs and was blind to them. I blocked all the signs from my mind, but what convinced me of her affair was not the e...

If you are thinking of separating, you have to read what this guy wrote!   Last year at about this time my wife of 13 years left me. She had started an emotional affair with a salesman that comes into her work twice a year. I had no idea p...

Here is a message I received from a male reader who seems to be thinking of cheating. This was the entire message:  I’m unhappy in a relationship and looking for love. My response: I don’t usually have this kind reaction from my readers...

Ok, Divorced Girl Smiling, here’s a biggie: I’m having an affair. How bad is that? If both parties are in unhappy marriages, but kids are involved, no one is leaving yet (no one feels they can.) So folks are cordially kind on a day to day basis i...