Relationships after divorce are wonderful! Whether it’s a new friendship, a fun summer fling, or a deep love, I think relationships after divorce are richer, more fulfilling and more appreciated than they are in our yo...
Category Archives: Relationship advice
Should This Guy Leave His Cheating Wife?
Should this guy leave his cheating wife? I have recently been contemplating separating/divorcing with my wife. I have a fairly high sex drive and my wife has none. I’m no saint, but in general I think ...
Dating A Divorced Woman With Kids: What You Need To Know
My heart went out to a sweet guy who emailed me to ask for my advice about dating a divorced woman with kids. The reason I felt so badly for the guy is because he has never been in this situation before, and because of that, the relationship is causi...
Advice For Guy Dating a Woman With a Young Son
I am dating a woman with a young son. She is amazing, but sometimes I feel suffocated. I’m not sure I should stay in this relationship. We are both very young—24 and 26 and I’m not ready to be a father. I don’t e...
No Respect? Divorce Could Be Looming
[caption id="attachment_5257" align="alignleft" width="150"] Aretha Franklin, whose smash hit "Respect" earned her 2 Grammies and an entry into the Grammy Hall of Fame[/caption] I got an e-ma...
3 Things I Would Tell Someone Getting Married
A question I received from a male reader: What are three things you would tell someone getting married? Someone just asked me the other day, “How can you give relationship advice to married couples when you are divorc...
Relationship Advice: Home For The Holidays Is a Problem
Read this email I received from a guy seeking relationship advice. He wants to go home for the holidays, but his fiancé fears he will cheat. The issue is causing lots of problems in the relationship. &n...
Thinking of Getting Back Together? 20 Questions to Consider
A reader’s comment below prompted this blog post. I’m not sure if he is thinking of getting back together with his ex-wife or if he is asking how to let her down gently. I don’t think he would have written to me if he knew what he...
Read This If You Are Thinking of Separating
I loved this post in the sense that it is something to think about if you are thinking of separating. A long term relationship is ALWAYS challenging and there will without a doubt be changes in both people over time. I always ...
Guy Thinking of Cheating: "I’m Unhappy in a Relationship and Looking For Love"
Here is a message I received from a male reader who seems to be thinking of cheating. This was the entire message: I’m unhappy in a relationship and looking for love. My response: I don’t usually have this kind reaction from my readers...